Honesty of varying kinds
Mar. 19th, 2025 11:03 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Actual headline: Why Tho? My friend’s ‘honesty’ makes me never want to be around her
Dear Lizzy,
I have backed off from a friend of seven years because she is too honest and butts in and discusses my personal business. I was recently fired for an honest mistake after 43 years at my job. I chose to tell people I retired. While at a dinner party for her retirement, she announced to everyone at the table that I did not retire but in fact got fired. Dead silence. I was so humiliated and angry I couldn’t speak. I got awkward stares and wanted to just leave. She doesn’t understand why this was wrong and feels she is just honest. No apology. Am I too sensitive? By the way, I don’t miss her.
No Regrets
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Dear Lizzy,
I have backed off from a friend of seven years because she is too honest and butts in and discusses my personal business. I was recently fired for an honest mistake after 43 years at my job. I chose to tell people I retired. While at a dinner party for her retirement, she announced to everyone at the table that I did not retire but in fact got fired. Dead silence. I was so humiliated and angry I couldn’t speak. I got awkward stares and wanted to just leave. She doesn’t understand why this was wrong and feels she is just honest. No apology. Am I too sensitive? By the way, I don’t miss her.
No Regrets
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