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Jul. 7th, 2022 02:59 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
conulyDear Annie: A couple of months ago, I caught my wife of 31 years talking to a guy on her Instagram. When I asked her about it, she said they were just friends and got all defensive about it. We have a joint account that she won't use.
Now the person she was talking to messaged me and told me they are talking on a different app. When I asked her about it, she denied it. I tried to check her phone, but she changed the passcode. She's become very distant, telling me she needs space because I accused her of cheating, which I never did.
Any advice to get her to see it from my point of view? I love her with all my heart, but I really don't know if I can trust her again. -- Insecure on Instagram
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Now the person she was talking to messaged me and told me they are talking on a different app. When I asked her about it, she denied it. I tried to check her phone, but she changed the passcode. She's become very distant, telling me she needs space because I accused her of cheating, which I never did.
Any advice to get her to see it from my point of view? I love her with all my heart, but I really don't know if I can trust her again. -- Insecure on Instagram
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