His Way or the Highway

[conuly]

Dear Annie: My husband is controlling. Everything has to be his way. I've caught him in lies. We argue constantly. I get pretty tired of it, but I come right back to him every time. I'm trying to figure out what to do.

We've both had hard lives. I've heard some concerning things about how he treated his ex-wife. I'm a nice and sweet person. I just want to be treated right. I don't like being yelled at or controlled. I used to work but now I can't get a job because he doesn't want me to get a job.

Also, he still constantly deals with his ex-girlfriend. She and I can't stand each other. She's been stalking him for seven years. I tried telling him to change his number and he won't. I don't know if he's still talking to her; she calls him privately. I was wondering what to do. I think he still has feelings for her, because otherwise he'd have told her to stop "stalking" him, instead of just letting it continue. What do you think? -- Stay or Go

( Oh, Annie, no! )