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conulyQ. My husband and I have been together for almost nine years, married almost four. Whenever I overstep some boundary, he ignores me for weeks. Last week, the same thing . . . so bad we are still not talking, and . . . now I really have to bring up the move.
My kids — from a previous relationship — live with their stepmom now because their dad is out of the country. I went to visit them and realized they are experiencing major problems. I’m their mother and I should be there for them, and right now, I’m not. Twice now I have made a move for my husband, but never has he compromised anything in his life for me, I just don’t know how to bring it up, especially now with “the fight.”
I want to move back to my hometown, but I really want him to come with me. I just know he won’t. I need to know what am I going to do. I’d like to move in less than a month, whether he comes with me or not. I just need to know how to talk to him, taking into account his constant bad mood. Please help.
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My kids — from a previous relationship — live with their stepmom now because their dad is out of the country. I went to visit them and realized they are experiencing major problems. I’m their mother and I should be there for them, and right now, I’m not. Twice now I have made a move for my husband, but never has he compromised anything in his life for me, I just don’t know how to bring it up, especially now with “the fight.”
I want to move back to my hometown, but I really want him to come with me. I just know he won’t. I need to know what am I going to do. I’d like to move in less than a month, whether he comes with me or not. I just need to know how to talk to him, taking into account his constant bad mood. Please help.
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