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https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/09/dan-savage-advice-savage-love-criticism-interview.html

In addition to discussing Dan Savage in all his problematic, snarktastic, nuanced glory, this touches on being an advice columnist in general, which is why I thought it belongs here. It's long though, so I'm not copying it over.
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I'm a 24-year-old gay man with a 31-year-old bi boyfriend. I've known since we got together that he's a lot more sexually experienced than I am, but it's never been a big deal before now. This weekend, he met my parents for what we thought would be the first time. But it turns out that ten years ago, during his "big bi slut phase" (his words), they had a threesome. I recognize that no one did anything wrong—they were three consenting adults—and it's not like anyone could’ve known that he and I would get together in the future. But also, my boyfriend fucked my parents! I'm mortified, he's mortified, they're mortified, and I may never be able to look at my parents again. Please help us find a way to move past this!

I Knew He Was Into Blonds


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