LW, you are way out of line

[conuly]

DEAR HARRIETTE: My best friend and I are professional ballerinas, and we've been dancing together since high school. We've been through so much together -- the long rehearsals, the endless auditions, the excitement of landing roles and the disappointments. Ballet has been a huge part of our lives, and we've always shared that passion.

Recently, my friend dropped a bombshell: She wants to quit ballet. Ballet has been her life for as long as I can remember, so when she told me she's thinking about leaving it all behind, I was shocked. Her reason is that she didn't get the lead role in our most recent show, which she has been working her whole career to get. I know how much she wanted that part and that it was a big disappointment for her, but it breaks my heart to think one setback might cause her to give up something she's been so dedicated to for all these years. I wonder if she's just reacting out of frustration and hurt in the moment. I've seen how much ballet means to her, and I can't imagine her life without it. How can I convince her to not give up her career and keep dancing? -- Quitter

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