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conulyDear Carolyn: Eight years ago, I sent my nephew a check as a gift for his graduation. I never received a thank-you note.
Recently, I have been contacted by nephew's mom, explaining that the check was misplaced and recently turned up, thanking me for it and insisting I not replace the check.
However, I believe the true intention of nephew's mom is for me to send another check. I believe I should not feel guilty if I do not send another, as I've already spent the energy, time and stamp to send the first check, and it was misplaced, not through any fault of mine. In addition, eight years have passed. Thoughts??
— Unsure in Wisconsin
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Recently, I have been contacted by nephew's mom, explaining that the check was misplaced and recently turned up, thanking me for it and insisting I not replace the check.
However, I believe the true intention of nephew's mom is for me to send another check. I believe I should not feel guilty if I do not send another, as I've already spent the energy, time and stamp to send the first check, and it was misplaced, not through any fault of mine. In addition, eight years have passed. Thoughts??
— Unsure in Wisconsin
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