Concerns about a daughter’s modesty expose more about the mother’s mind-set

[conuly]

Dear Carolyn: Lately I've noticed my 30-year-old daughter, a mother of three, has not been wearing a bra. It is obvious. While she is very small-chested, it's a matter of modesty to me . . . and cultural norms, I guess.

How can I nicely let her know how I — and her sisters and I'm sure others — feel about it?

— Modest in Kansas

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