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minoanmiss ([personal profile] minoanmiss) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2019-07-31 05:09 pm

Ask a Manager: I found out my coworker was once charged with drug possession

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I work part-time in a high-end restaurant. One of my coworkers is in his 40s and is extremely capable and efficient, so much so that I asked him one day what else he does (I assumed he was in grad school or was an artist/writer of some sort and doing this job for supplementary income). He replied that he used to manage a law firm but got burnt out and needed a change. That seemed odd to me since we are hourly employees and aren’t particularly well paid, so I did a Google search. It turns out that he was indeed operations manager of a large law firm, but I also found out that three years ago he was charged with possession of a large quantity of cocaine with intent to traffic.

So, what do I do now? I’m assuming my employer doesn’t know. I was hired from a resume (no disclosure statement) and they only called the first reference on my list. I like this coworker, and he is good at his job, but he is taking on more and more responsibility and is sometimes the first one in or the last one out. We are kitchen staff so don’t handle money, but there are a lot of expensive supplies around and most people leave their personal property (handbags, etc.) on open shelving at the back of kitchen. I believe everyone deserves a second chance, but I also know that drugs can make people behave erratically. While I have no concerns for my safety from this man, I do feel a little uneasy now about my personal property while I’m at work, and wonder if it’s wrong of me to keep this info to myself. I also think my employer should know who they are entrusting with their property, but at the same time it really was their responsibility to do a proper background check. If it makes any difference, we are part of a large chain with a centralized HR department, and the company spends money lavishly but cheaps out on staff salaries and thus has trouble finding good people.


This really isn’t your business. You have no idea if your employer knows or not, or whether they would care if they did. Charged doesn’t equal convicted, and possessing drugs doesn’t equal thief. On top of that, many states make it illegal to discriminate in hiring on the basis of criminal convictions that don’t relate to the work someone is doing (and again, we don’t even know if there was a conviction here). Plus, it’s pretty likely that he’s not your only coworker who has possessed drugs.

(And on that “intent to traffic” element, with drug laws, simply possessing over a certain quantity typically triggers that addition. Which is weird, because no one accuses people with big wine collections of intending to traffic bottles of wine.)

Eyes on your own paper on this one.
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[personal profile] cereta 2019-07-31 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I was pretty sure the LW was pretty young. I remember how quick I was to judge at that age.

I always want to respond to things like this with, "You know, my Grandpa was a rum-runner during Prohibition. Literally no one thought this mattered later in his life."
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[personal profile] redbird 2019-07-31 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
This has a certain tone of "Of course I believe everyone deserves a second chance, but not in my neighborhood."
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[personal profile] lilysea 2019-08-01 08:09 am (UTC)(link)
Yes.

"My coworker has been charged with sexually assaulting a number of women and I no longer feel safe at work" is one thing

"My coworker was convicted of non violent drug offences" is something completely different.

Especially since drug convictions are often racially biased - people of colour are more likely to be charged/convicted for drug offenses than white people.

[Personally, I think possession of drugs should be decriminalised, thus emptying jails and making drugs much less profitable for organised crime. At once point I was working for the Health department on the National Illicit Drug Strategy, and they sent me to a conference of international experts in the field, all of whom said "making drugs illegal doesn't work - it doesn't reduce use, and makes treating addiction much harder."
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[personal profile] evilsusan 2019-08-01 04:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I spent a decade or so working in restaurants. Never saw one without at least a few employees who did drugs. Some waited until they got home or to a party, but there was one place where they were smoking crack right on the line. Letter writer has some eyes to open and some self to get over.