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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2020-04-28 06:21 pm
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Seriously, LW, what is wrong with you?

DEAR HARRIETTE: I talked to a good friend who told me that almost a dozen people in his life have died in the past couple of weeks due to COVID-19. He had been trying to stay positive and follow directions, but he was really down when we talked that day. I offered to pray with him, which we did. I then told him that as bad as it is, he has to be grateful that he is alive. He got mad at me for saying that. I didn’t know what to say, honestly. Nothing like this has ever happened before. But I do know that if you get depressed, it will be harder to get through this sadness. What else can I say to him? -- Grieving Friend

DEAR GRIEVING FRIEND: Forgive your friend for not being able to receive your message at this dark moment in his life. Continue to pray for him. And reach out to him soon and often. Check in to learn how he is feeling and what he is doing. Share something positive that you have read or seen. Encourage him to do something uplifting. Stay in touch and be a good listener, even when he is insensitive.

https://www.uexpress.com/sense-and-sensitivity/2020/4/28/1/reader-wonders-when-its-ok-to
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[personal profile] rosefox 2020-04-28 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
"even when he is insensitive"

Oh do fuck off, Harriette.
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[personal profile] jadelennox 2020-04-29 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
Harriette sucks all the sucking.