2022-09-16
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Dear Annie: I'm having issues with some things my mother-in-law has said to me. First, here's some background information:
In January 2015, I found my husband of many years dead on the floor of our home after suffering a heart attack. I am a nurse and began CPR immediately to try to save him. I was unsuccessful. As a nurse, I know and understand what happened was something I wouldn't have been able to save him from. However, it was a very traumatic experience. I was a widow before the age of 50.
Fast forward, I met and married a wonderful man, and we love each other dearly. I thank God for him every day and know he was sent to me.
I have treated his parents like my own. Since I am a nurse, I have helped with their medical issues. I plan, purchase and prepare a dinner every Sunday after church and send leftovers home with them.
His mother started making horrible comments toward me. First, she told me that I have a large chest and bottom. I responded with yes, I do, but your son enjoys them equally and frequently. If you have a problem, talk to him. She has accused me of murdering my former husband and of trying to put her in a home so I can steal her money. She refuses to believe she has done anything wrong and refuses to apologize. Lastly, she tells her son and others she doesn't know why I don't like her.
I have tried to talk to her and have written a letter to her explaining exactly why I will not have anything to do with her because of the horrible things she has said to me. I need help with this monster-in-law. -- Eaten Alive
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In January 2015, I found my husband of many years dead on the floor of our home after suffering a heart attack. I am a nurse and began CPR immediately to try to save him. I was unsuccessful. As a nurse, I know and understand what happened was something I wouldn't have been able to save him from. However, it was a very traumatic experience. I was a widow before the age of 50.
Fast forward, I met and married a wonderful man, and we love each other dearly. I thank God for him every day and know he was sent to me.
I have treated his parents like my own. Since I am a nurse, I have helped with their medical issues. I plan, purchase and prepare a dinner every Sunday after church and send leftovers home with them.
His mother started making horrible comments toward me. First, she told me that I have a large chest and bottom. I responded with yes, I do, but your son enjoys them equally and frequently. If you have a problem, talk to him. She has accused me of murdering my former husband and of trying to put her in a home so I can steal her money. She refuses to believe she has done anything wrong and refuses to apologize. Lastly, she tells her son and others she doesn't know why I don't like her.
I have tried to talk to her and have written a letter to her explaining exactly why I will not have anything to do with her because of the horrible things she has said to me. I need help with this monster-in-law. -- Eaten Alive
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