As awkward and embarrassing as it would be to hear it face-to-face from somebody I know, it's gotta be a million times worse to find out anonymously. Then I have no idea who knows or who they're gossiping about it with!
LW, do the right thing. That means being open and honest with this woman.
(Of course, if LW wants to take an intermediate step of informing this woman's husband anonymously that he has X days to tell her before LW does, that's okay. He deserves no courtesy.)
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As awkward and embarrassing as it would be to hear it face-to-face from somebody I know, it's gotta be a million times worse to find out anonymously. Then I have no idea who knows or who they're gossiping about it with!
LW, do the right thing. That means being open and honest with this woman.
(Of course, if LW wants to take an intermediate step of informing this woman's husband anonymously that he has X days to tell her before LW does, that's okay. He deserves no courtesy.)