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Lucy ([personal profile] cereta) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2023-08-03 12:43 pm
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Dear Abby: How to close contact with someone

DEAR ABBY: I recently met this guy at a private event. We got to talking, and he gave me his social media information. We have been messaging each other ever since. He has been acting increasingly obsessed, and it's making me uncomfortable. He acts like we've known each other for years. I don't know how to tell him I don't want to talk to him anymore. What are your thoughts? -- RESERVED GUY IN MASSACHUSETTS

DEAR RESERVED GUY: My thought is that because his messages are making you uncomfortable, you should respond to them slowly, briefly and then not at all. It would be kinder than ghosting him.

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[personal profile] ethelmay 2023-08-04 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, wait. I just noticed LW is a guy. That might explain why he sounds like this kind of thing has never happened to him before. At any rate I get the impression it happens to women a lot more.