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Dear Annie: We live across the street from a married couple — man and woman — who have a 16-month-old girl. Every time they get her out of the car, no matter what the weather is, they have nothing on her head. Even when the temperature was in the teens, and another time when it was pouring rain, there was nothing on her head.
I'm 60. I raised three daughters and always covered their heads with some kind of toboggan hat, hood or rain gear when appropriate.
The couple's defense, I'm sure, would be that they're just going from the car and up about 20 steps to the house, but still, I think it's ridiculous. I'm not sure if I should say something to them or not. Should I? — Neighbor
Dear Neighbor: Assuming that they have a jacket on the 16-month-old and the girl does not seem in distress, i.e., freezing or crying uncontrollably, it's probably better not to say anything. Perhaps you could buy her a really nice hat and bring it over as a neighborly present. Maybe they would get the hint.
https://www.creators.com/read/dear-annie/01/23/worried-about-neighbors-infant-5dadb
I'm 60. I raised three daughters and always covered their heads with some kind of toboggan hat, hood or rain gear when appropriate.
The couple's defense, I'm sure, would be that they're just going from the car and up about 20 steps to the house, but still, I think it's ridiculous. I'm not sure if I should say something to them or not. Should I? — Neighbor
Dear Neighbor: Assuming that they have a jacket on the 16-month-old and the girl does not seem in distress, i.e., freezing or crying uncontrollably, it's probably better not to say anything. Perhaps you could buy her a really nice hat and bring it over as a neighborly present. Maybe they would get the hint.
https://www.creators.com/read/dear-annie/01/23/worried-about-neighbors-infant-5dadb
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LW should not, I repeat not, buy these people a hat for their child. As they said, the child is only going from the car to the house and vice versa. They're absolutely fine. LW should instead get a new hobby. Literally any hobby that gets them out of the house and gives them something to do other than criticizing the neighbors.
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W...why the obsession with something being on this kid's head?
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Right up until it's 95% out, then they're equally convinced that every baby is inches away from dying of heat stroke.
They're all convinced that the solution, in every case, is the same: MORE HATS.
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And I live in a country where the UV is crazy and so is the weather.
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The kid is 22 and still has his feet, so I think he was okay.
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The parents are doing an excellent job and LW needs to take several seats.
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It could explain why they seem to find the impulse so hard to resist, and why they seem so shocked and hurt when it's coldly received.
Frankly, I don't think anyone wants "wisdom" from anyone they don't already respect (and possibly not even from those they do) and if she wants to start getting to know her neighbors she'd do better with "Nice weather we've been having." And if she wants to drop off something no one has asked for, a safer bet might be cookies.
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