OK I feel bad for the LW but I also feel like she (and her current husband) probably have not been clear and have enabled probably some of this?
LW needs to get their husband on board or at least on the same page. LW need to give ex husband a specific timeline when he needs to be out of the driveway. If that means giving him a date and a whole bunch of community resources then that is what it takes.
Once that path is set in motion they need to both give the same clear communication until the end date.
I say this knowing it is easier said than done. But if LW doesn't want their ex in their driveway they need to take those steps, document everything, and have some backup in the form of their current husband and possibly a lawyer.
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LW needs to get their husband on board or at least on the same page. LW need to give ex husband a specific timeline when he needs to be out of the driveway. If that means giving him a date and a whole bunch of community resources then that is what it takes.
Once that path is set in motion they need to both give the same clear communication until the end date.
I say this knowing it is easier said than done. But if LW doesn't want their ex in their driveway they need to take those steps, document everything, and have some backup in the form of their current husband and possibly a lawyer.