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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2021-01-23 02:37 am

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DEAR ABBY: New neighbors moved into my apartment building about a month ago. I don't mind that sometimes I hear their kids. I don't mind that sometimes I hear the adults. BUT! Their alarm clock wakes me up every morning at 6 a.m. It's loud, and I'm guessing it's up against the adjoining wall.

Normally, I sleep until 8. I work from home, and I'm usually up until 1 a.m. or so. I'm a night owl, and I simply can't go to sleep any earlier.

It's impossible to sleep through their alarm. It has been weeks. I am afraid if I complain they will call me a racist since I am white, and they are black. But it's NOT a race thing; it's a sleep thing. What should I do? -- SLEEPLESS IN BALTIMORE


DEAR SLEEPLESS: Write a polite note to the new neighbors and introduce yourself. Explain the problem you are experiencing and ask if they can help you by either moving their alarm clock to a different part of their bedroom or adjusting the ring to make it softer. (It could be as simple as placing their clock on a soft surface like a towel.) If they are unwilling to cooperate, as a last resort try earplugs and talk to the building manager about the noise problem.

https://www.arcamax.com/healthandspirit/lifeadvice/dearabby/s-2469644
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[personal profile] minoanmiss 2021-01-23 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)
la la la, alarm goes off early, that is annoying, talk to them politely -- I CAN'T TALK TO THEM THEY'LL CALL ME A RACIST THAT'S WHAT ALL BLACK PEOPLE DO WHENEVER ANYONE EXPRESSES ANYTHING NEGATIVE TO THEM EVER RIGHT?

Oh for fuck's sake. I feel sorry for the neighbors already. How long till LW accuses them of stealing their own car or calls the police on their teenage son?

I think the advice is sensible but I bitterly wish it could have included a scolding.