AA - are you willing to take in this kid in the event of a failed adoption? Are you willing to track them down if the parents attempt to "rehome" on their own? Are you happy calling social services if your relatives turn out to be even worse than you think?
No? Then be honest.
And I'm going to be blunt here. There are a lot of murders of adopted children by "very religious parents", particularly religious parents of a more conservative bent. Disabled and LGBTQ kids are always at a higher risk of harm than others, but even without those confounding factors.... Some people get into adoption because they want to adopt, and some people do it because they want to Save a Child. And in the latter case, they're not always willing to accept that the child they save may not be brimming over with gratitude for the favor, at every minute of every day, and obedient and complaint and cheerful.
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No? Then be honest.
And I'm going to be blunt here. There are a lot of murders of adopted children by "very religious parents", particularly religious parents of a more conservative bent. Disabled and LGBTQ kids are always at a higher risk of harm than others, but even without those confounding factors.... Some people get into adoption because they want to adopt, and some people do it because they want to Save a Child. And in the latter case, they're not always willing to accept that the child they save may not be brimming over with gratitude for the favor, at every minute of every day, and obedient and complaint and cheerful.