Seriously, until a med adjust a few days ago, just the 10-minute process of taking a bath and drying myself after left me exhausted. Have I been pushing through that to help my daughter with her homework? Will I push through my constant migraine to sell tickets to her play? Yes, because those things are super important to me, and I budget spoons and recovery time for them. And I know, I know that people see me smiling and chatting when I do thinks like that and think, well, she can't be too bad off. It's a no-win situation.