Yeah, I think you're right here. I don't know if this is a particularly American idea but we really seem to believe that if a phrasing has been said before it's meaningless and it's only special if we come up with a whole new phrasing.

Also, they spent TWO YEARS planning this wedding (why do people do that to themseleves), she probably wound herself up to a fever pitch of emotion higher than Everest. No wonder something relatively small caused her to crash So Hard.