Also, it's not actually uncommon for parents of newborns to already be worrying a little that their kid might hate them, because newborns are puzzling little critters who often seem unhappy and don't signal emotions in the same way as they will later. And you've just MET each other, and they're kind of preoccupied with learning to eat and poop and get used to clothes and all. It's very fortunate that you also have all the "OMG, the little toesies!" feelings to distract you.