Can I just say, I did not even know how to tag that one? I really debated adding the "male privilege" tag, because this reeks of, "but I want her and I'm doing everything right so she has to love me!", but I try not to editorialize in the tags too much. Feel free to weigh in.
On Abby's advice: no, no, no, no, no. That's what this woman keeps saying. LW had to beg her to cook him dinner (which seems a little...odd), and the one time they had sex, she was inebriated (which, combined with #1, sets my consent alarm bells ringing; I really, really hope that LW didn't plan that very thing when he asked for a dinner at one of their homes).
LW needs to take this woman at her word, leave her alone, and get professional help, not to make himself into someone she'll love, but to get over this obsession and this idea that he's entitled to her.
Jessica does not approve
On Abby's advice: no, no, no, no, no. That's what this woman keeps saying. LW had to beg her to cook him dinner (which seems a little...odd), and the one time they had sex, she was inebriated (which, combined with #1, sets my consent alarm bells ringing; I really, really hope that LW didn't plan that very thing when he asked for a dinner at one of their homes).
LW needs to take this woman at her word, leave her alone, and get professional help, not to make himself into someone she'll love, but to get over this obsession and this idea that he's entitled to her.