Yeah, my reaction to LW saying even ONE thing like that example, and it sounds like more, is so appalled... I mean that already sounds like a crisis to me: they need therapy DESPERATELY. What kind of person would say something like this in a situation like this? Not any emotionally okay and stable person. I've only ever heard this kind of lashing out in person from my mom and her siblings, so, survivors of childhood abuse with untreated PTSD because they refuse to believe they need therapy. And I don't honestly think anybody should stay with a partner who lashes out at them in this way like... EVER.