On the flipside, I once read a letter to... probably Abby, but idk - from a man who basically said dudes who do this are dipshits, he knows his son was the product of infidelity, but he's the real winner and his ex-wife who fobbed him off on him in the divorce lost out, any decent person would be proud to be related to that young man.

Every once in a while I think about that letter in counterpoint to those, well, dipshits and I want to give that man and his son a cookie.