1. OH jeepers, a non professional photo posted to facebook and viewed on god knows what device might not look amazing. SHOCKING.
2. Why on earth must our personal preferences of how to look conform to everyone else's ideal look for ourselves?
3. Is she happy? Or has she expressed something in personal conversation about her looks that would lead to this conversation? If not, shut up. It's not like her underwear is showing or a stain on her butt.
4. HAS SHE ASKED? This is where it gets complex, because now you can start to deal with the friendship vs unvarnished truth vs white lies, etc. And if we're on #4 I can see there being a genuine issue but if it's not this issue it all feels like someone asking permission and therefore absolution to be 'brutally internet honest' with a friend.
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1. OH jeepers, a non professional photo posted to facebook and viewed on god knows what device might not look amazing. SHOCKING.
2. Why on earth must our personal preferences of how to look conform to everyone else's ideal look for ourselves?
3. Is she happy? Or has she expressed something in personal conversation about her looks that would lead to this conversation? If not, shut up. It's not like her underwear is showing or a stain on her butt.
4. HAS SHE ASKED? This is where it gets complex, because now you can start to deal with the friendship vs unvarnished truth vs white lies, etc. And if we're on #4 I can see there being a genuine issue but if it's not this issue it all feels like someone asking permission and therefore absolution to be 'brutally internet honest' with a friend.