you were explicitly disagreeing with someone saying that parents should have pieces of their lives that aren't 100% about their child.
"If you don't want to parent don't have a child" is a MUCH less extreme position than you were advocating above and if you can't see that I don't know how to explain it to you.
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"If you don't want to parent don't have a child" is a MUCH less extreme position than you were advocating above and if you can't see that I don't know how to explain it to you.