It's very odd to me that you think that things like "It's actually important for parents to have pieces of their lives that aren't 100% about their child(ren)" is incompatible with what you said.
Do you...not understand that children benefit from caregivers other than their parents? That children benefit from caregivers who are not burned out and exhausted? What you are saying makes no sense whatsoever to me.
Are you actually literally saying that if someone has a kid they should never want to be doing anything other than parenting that child at every moment? because that, which to be clear, is a completely cuckoo bananpants bonkers fucking wildly universe-breaking level of statement, seems like what you're saying. And I just can't believe that someone can believe that and type it out with their hands or nose or whatever and actually mean it.
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Do you...not understand that children benefit from caregivers other than their parents? That children benefit from caregivers who are not burned out and exhausted? What you are saying makes no sense whatsoever to me.
Are you actually literally saying that if someone has a kid they should never want to be doing anything other than parenting that child at every moment? because that, which to be clear, is a completely cuckoo bananpants bonkers fucking wildly universe-breaking level of statement, seems like what you're saying. And I just can't believe that someone can believe that and type it out with their hands or nose or whatever and actually mean it.