Also, the phrase “she wants to be abused” should never, ever be uttered.
Even to say “oh, THIS girl doesn’t want it” implies that there are some people who DO “want” abuse.
I’m friends with a couple who are very into martial arts, as well as their elementary-age son, and they sometimes post especially dramatic bruises from tournament bouts on FB!!
(The son’s girlfriend may have been slightly-awkwardly trying to talk to her boyfriend’s parents about their shared interest in a complimentary way, since she doesn’t know them and was trying to connect!)
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Also, the phrase “she wants to be abused” should never, ever be uttered.
Even to say “oh, THIS girl doesn’t want it” implies that there are some people who DO “want” abuse.
I’m friends with a couple who are very into martial arts, as well as their elementary-age son, and they sometimes post especially dramatic bruises from tournament bouts on FB!!
(The son’s girlfriend may have been slightly-awkwardly trying to talk to her boyfriend’s parents about their shared interest in a complimentary way, since she doesn’t know them and was trying to connect!)
But, yeah, bad advice and judgy LW.