Believe it or not, there are people who genuinely wouldn't have sex with anyone on a few hours' acquaintance. There are even men who feel that way!
Even if they would, it doesn't mean that they want to have sex with you after a few hours' acquaintance. It could be you, it could be circumstances, it could be how they are feeling about sex right then. No one owes you sex, no matter what their present, past, or future sexual practices have been. Internalize that last sentence.
What exactly do you think you are gaining by "calling them on it"? Dude, if nothing else, word will eventually get around that you're a douche.*
I kind of doubt that the reason they are speechless is because you have "caught them in a lie."
If what you want is immediate sex, go to an online dating service and put it on your profile. There are women who want the same thing. Whether or not they'll want to have immediate sex with you (see above re: douche) is another matter. Or you could, you know, do some self-reflection and work to make yourself the kind of person women will want to have sex with at all.
*Which is to say, unnecessary, bad for women, and something the patriarchy says we need.
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Believe it or not, there are people who genuinely wouldn't have sex with anyone on a few hours' acquaintance. There are even men who feel that way!
Even if they would, it doesn't mean that they want to have sex with you after a few hours' acquaintance. It could be you, it could be circumstances, it could be how they are feeling about sex right then. No one owes you sex, no matter what their present, past, or future sexual practices have been. Internalize that last sentence.
What exactly do you think you are gaining by "calling them on it"? Dude, if nothing else, word will eventually get around that you're a douche.*
I kind of doubt that the reason they are speechless is because you have "caught them in a lie."
If what you want is immediate sex, go to an online dating service and put it on your profile. There are women who want the same thing. Whether or not they'll want to have immediate sex with you (see above re: douche) is another matter. Or you could, you know, do some self-reflection and work to make yourself the kind of person women will want to have sex with at all.
*Which is to say, unnecessary, bad for women, and something the patriarchy says we need.