LW, congratulations on surviving your eating disorder. That can't be taken for granted, and I know you did a whole lot of hard work to get where you are now.
Your grandmother is way out of line, and you may have to have a hard conversation with her now to properly enjoy your time with her on this trip, and make some hard decisions. It may be hard to make yourself vulnerable by asking her to refrain from making any comments about your body, or others' bodies, and telling her that you won't be able to enjoy the trip properly if she does comment. And if she does start making comments on the trip, your options for withdrawing from her presence and enjoying Mexico on your own could be limited, particularly if she's funding the trip.
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LW, congratulations on surviving your eating disorder. That can't be taken for granted, and I know you did a whole lot of hard work to get where you are now.
Your grandmother is way out of line, and you may have to have a hard conversation with her now to properly enjoy your time with her on this trip, and make some hard decisions. It may be hard to make yourself vulnerable by asking her to refrain from making any comments about your body, or others' bodies, and telling her that you won't be able to enjoy the trip properly if she does comment. And if she does start making comments on the trip, your options for withdrawing from her presence and enjoying Mexico on your own could be limited, particularly if she's funding the trip.