Yeah, she wants to hold onto the grudge, and she's upset that other people aren't.
(Trust me, I am BITTER about one ex in particular -- but if we shared a child, I'd find a way to co-parent effectively. Even though she's 30 now, my daughter's father and I are still on good terms.)
Her actions are pushing her son away, so she needs to decide whether it's more important to hold onto old wounds, or work on repairing that relationship.
(Even if she didn't PAY for any of the wedding, she could have chosen to pitch in and reach out in other ways. It doesn't sound like she actively made an effort to be involved.)
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(Trust me, I am BITTER about one ex in particular -- but if we shared a child, I'd find a way to co-parent effectively. Even though she's 30 now, my daughter's father and I are still on good terms.)
Her actions are pushing her son away, so she needs to decide whether it's more important to hold onto old wounds, or work on repairing that relationship.
(Even if she didn't PAY for any of the wedding, she could have chosen to pitch in and reach out in other ways. It doesn't sound like she actively made an effort to be involved.)