Also, I added up all the numbers - LW's daughter gained 20 pounds here, 30 pounds there, and at least 60 pounds over the course of the pandemic, which now puts her 100 pounds over "a healthy weight".

Assuming LW can do basic arithmetic, it sounds like she liked her daughter more when she was malnourished and underweight. And also, let's not forget, an alcoholic. Gee, I wonder why her daughter started drinking....