AS a person-in-training for this, may I just say, "Eff you, LW, go bury your head in the dirt."

Or, more formally, LW, it's often difficult to find a therapist who one will vibe with in all the best ways. If it's not working, it's not working, and it doesn't necessarily matter *how* "highly recommended" she is. Don't dismiss his concerns.

(Mind you, some of us white ladies *are* trying to pay attention to the realities of being a Black man in a sea of whiteness, but that doesn't mean it works all the time.)

LW's son: don't drop your old therp until you can find a different one.