LW1: You need to talk to a lawyer. In some states a person's existing will is invalidated when they marry, but in others (like mine) it's not; if you live in one of the former you may be okay even if your husband waffles till death, but in others you and your child could be screwed over. Also, you should make your own will anyway, because you now have a child and need to name guardians.

LW 2-6: Nah, I'm jumping straight to "bail" on these.