About a decade ago I was reading the morning paper at work and a doctor published PRECISELY THIS MALARKEY in an editorial. A woman with 3 kids, a job, and night school, came to him asking for a tubal (this is HIS description of her) and he turned her away with "what if your kids die and you want more?" And thought he was doing the right thing! Enough to write about it! I wanted to REACH INTO THE PAPER AND STRANGLE HIM. My coworkers found me waving my arms in rage.