I would, advise that, too -- and I did, when my partner refused to get a vasectomy -- but it is more invasive than a vasectomy, to be sure. A vasectomy is so simple that a doctor has done one to himself; even a laparoscopic tubal is still abdominal surgery.
All these stories boil down to two things:
both parties have the right to refuse coerced medical procedures (vasectomy) or drugs (oral contraceptives)
both parties have the right to set the pre-conditions for sex.
If she's not willing to have PIV sex with a fertile guy, that's legit. If he's not willing to get snipped, that's also legit. Either they can have non PIV sex, or they can stop fucking, or one of them can move their position. Those are the choices.
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I would, advise that, too -- and I did, when my partner refused to get a vasectomy -- but it is more invasive than a vasectomy, to be sure. A vasectomy is so simple that a doctor has done one to himself; even a laparoscopic tubal is still abdominal surgery.
All these stories boil down to two things:
If she's not willing to have PIV sex with a fertile guy, that's legit. If he's not willing to get snipped, that's also legit. Either they can have non PIV sex, or they can stop fucking, or one of them can move their position. Those are the choices.