LW, I vote you go to Maine and don't look back, but if you really want to give them a chance, point out to both of them that you need space for your kids that you can't afford in California, and offer to trade housing. See what they say.
They clearly have the resources to be helping you more than they are, and they aren't. So don't feel obligated to help them, either.
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LW, I vote you go to Maine and don't look back, but if you really want to give them a chance, point out to both of them that you need space for your kids that you can't afford in California, and offer to trade housing. See what they say.
They clearly have the resources to be helping you more than they are, and they aren't. So don't feel obligated to help them, either.