I agree with the overall move to Main part of the advice but.
1) OMFG It's not "distasteful" to count on inheritance money. It may be impractical, unwise, unhelpful, and for that matter - highly privileged but OMFG it's not distasteful.
2) Two family elders rattling around in empty 4 bedroom houses while LW's kids are sleeping in a make-shift bedroom in a rented house? Have no right to be surprised that LW's plans for moving are intended to take themselves someplace more affordable with the room they and their family want.
3) Why do I suspect that LW's sister has GOOD REASONS for "not being the caregiving kind"
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I agree with the overall move to Main part of the advice but.
1) OMFG It's not "distasteful" to count on inheritance money. It may be impractical, unwise, unhelpful, and for that matter - highly privileged but OMFG it's not distasteful.
2) Two family elders rattling around in empty 4 bedroom houses while LW's kids are sleeping in a make-shift bedroom in a rented house? Have no right to be surprised that LW's plans for moving are intended to take themselves someplace more affordable with the room they and their family want.
3) Why do I suspect that LW's sister has GOOD REASONS for "not being the caregiving kind"