The pregnancy was complicated and she didn’t do much around the house, leaving a lot of extra work in my hands--it was a high risk pregnancy! That means she needed to rest! Then you added insult to the catastrophe of losing the baby by having an affair instead of supporting your wife during the worst time of her life. Clearly you missed the "for better and for worse" part of your marriage vow, LW. Paging Whole Man Disposal Services, sheesh.