ashbet: (Snark)
ashbet ([personal profile] ashbet) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt 2022-08-19 03:27 am (UTC)

Re: Warning for possible dub-con

I have watched dudes INTO the chastity kink still whine that their female partner wasn’t dressed-up and in-character as their sexy Domme at all times, soooo…

(Like, Dommes need the dishes done and want to watch TV in their pajamas periodically, it can’t all be OMG EDGING ORGASM DENIAL all the damn time, 24/7.)

I love your advice! I just hate to have to report that Whiny Dudes Gonna Whiny Dude.

(Yes, it happens with other gender combinations and kinks and roles, but this happens to be a dynamic that I’ve observed repeatedly, when a romantic/live-in partnership overlaps with expectations that the D-type be “on” 100% of the time. It’s exhausting!)

Not my particular cup of pervy tea, but I’ve had the opportunity to watch it happen up-close.



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