Yes — I am a friendly, flirty (in an appropriate way), very busty, reasonably attractive person who has gotten a lot of attention in venues where it’s reasonable to hit on people (hi, Goth clubs!), and it drove me NUTS when my ex-husband would get jealous or offended about it.

(I made it clear to anyone actually trying to pick me up that I was flattered, but taken. But I love a good bit of friendly banter.)

I am completely unthreatened by people hitting on my partners, they’re attractive and I’m lucky! As long as they come home with me, we’re good ^_^