It never fails to puzzle me that people who can easily accept that someone can find multiple members of a different sex attractive without having some overwhelming need to have sex with more than one of them suddenly stumble when attraction to people of more than one sex is added in. Like, I can find Matt Bomer painfully beautiful without compromising my monogamous m/f relationship. Why is that suddenly so hard to believe when the person I find beautiful/attractive/hot like burning is Kate Winslet?