This is actually pretty good advice for a deeply sad situation. Yes, LW's "mean-spirited and yes, could be seen as racist" is insufficient and mealymouthed, but they're trying. 15 years is a long time and coming to terms with your spouse's racism must be shocking.
(I wonder who brought the daughter into the marriage, if there's a grandchild and they've been married for 15 years? I wonder this only because if it's LW, it seems like the unfixable schism between the wife and the daughter is inevitable and soon.)
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This is actually pretty good advice for a deeply sad situation. Yes, LW's "mean-spirited and yes, could be seen as racist" is insufficient and mealymouthed, but they're trying. 15 years is a long time and coming to terms with your spouse's racism must be shocking.
(I wonder who brought the daughter into the marriage, if there's a grandchild and they've been married for 15 years? I wonder this only because if it's LW, it seems like the unfixable schism between the wife and the daughter is inevitable and soon.)