I want to know if LW is white or a nonimmigrant-kid African American, or another nonwhite ethnicity distant from immigrant roots.
Because the context changes from "get away from this woman and aggressively pursue physical and decision-making custody" with a white woman to "ugh this is going to be hard but y'all can probably work it out" with a nonwhite (Black?) woman.
But since LW wrote in and not her partner, I wish the advice had capped out what this is likely largely about: LW does not want her baby, its father, and its paternal grandparents to share a language she does not speak, which smacks of control issues even absent the (large) racism/xenophobia issues.
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I want to know if LW is white or a nonimmigrant-kid African American, or another nonwhite ethnicity distant from immigrant roots.
Because the context changes from "get away from this woman and aggressively pursue physical and decision-making custody" with a white woman to "ugh this is going to be hard but y'all can probably work it out" with a nonwhite (Black?) woman.
But since LW wrote in and not her partner, I wish the advice had capped out what this is likely largely about: LW does not want her baby, its father, and its paternal grandparents to share a language she does not speak, which smacks of control issues even absent the (large) racism/xenophobia issues.