Yes, agreed. It's also possible even without facebook that a mutual acquaintance mentioned it. If he wasn't the one that told you, LW, I would say the polite thing is to pretend you don't know until he does mention it.
If he was the one that told you, go with Miss Manners' advice. Although I would probably go with something not just token but that passes as an icebreaker gift. Or flowers.
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If he was the one that told you, go with Miss Manners' advice. Although I would probably go with something not just token but that passes as an icebreaker gift. Or flowers.