Yeah. Which sort of ties into my "well is this Your Wife's Daughter or Your Stepdaughter or Your Daughter-daughter?" He uses all three words but they all mean or at least imply something really different, you know?

And obviously this is the kind of thing that always winds up being a question in agony-aunt type situations, but it just means that even as an advisor based just on this I'd still be going "okay what does your wife think? First step: you two get on the same page about all this."