It's like. There is a valid level to be concerned about an adult child's comparative inability to manage their own life etc etc. But it's not like this guy - from the sound of it - is drowning in credit-card debt and doesn't keep his house clean and can't get a job and is genuinely living on handouts that reinforce his learned helplessness! So we are not at that level! So why the hell are you OBJECTING to your child being granted happiness?

HUMANS.