Fun fact: I was in a wedding party for which the rehearsal was the day after I learned my dad was terminal. The wedding was in the two week period between that day and his death. I'm pretty sure another member of the wedding party had also just learned his dad was dying. I'm also pretty sure neither of us told the couple.

I have absolutely no idea if I was well behaved. I intended to be, but, I mean, I was out of my mind with grief. I have no idea if I actually was. I know my housemates ran interference for me at the wedding itself but they couldn't do so during wedding party duties.

This is why people cut others slack when they're in the immediacy of grief. People are not rational or capable of moderating their behavior.

In conclusion, dump The Bride. If she treated Kate this way, she'll treat you badly as well.

Wait, absolutely non of those facts were fun. Oops.