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melannen ([personal profile] melannen) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt 2021-11-30 09:36 pm (UTC)

I can't tell from the letter: was the situation here:

Kate calls right before the wedding and says, "Bride, I need to talk about a personal thing", and Bride says, "Kate there is a ton going on and I'm under a lot of stress, can your personal issues wait," Kate gets offended and says "FINE" and hangs up and acts ruffled all through the wedding, later Bride finds out Kate's father is dying and goes "Oh my god, why didn't you mention that, I'm so sorry," Kate snaps at her about how she was a Bridezilla, Bride reconsiders friendship with person who would rather attempt to ruin a wedding with drama than tell friend what is wrong.

or was it

Kate calls right before the wedding and says, "Bride, I just learned my dad is dying, can we talk?" and Bride says, "Kate there's a ton going on and I'm under a lot of stress, can your dying dad wait," Kate gets offended etc.; Bride gets offended that Kate thinks a dying dad is more important than her wedding and reconsiders friendship.

Or was it

Kate calls right before the wedding and says "Bride, can we talk about my dad?" and Bride says, "Kate we've been having two-hour conversations where you cry on me about your dad every night for months; I'm under a lot of stress right now, can we talk wedding instead for one night?"; Kate gets offended etc.; Bride rethinks the amount of effort they're both putting into the friendship and rethinks the friendship.

The first one is a couple people who are both under a lot of stress screwing up. The second one is Bride being an asshole. The third one is a couple people who are both under a lot of stress screwing up. I can't tell which it is.

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