Sure. It's part of the reason my partner and I decided not to use barriers. We talked about it, we both feel like HPV is super common, and not a big enough deal for us to be worth changing our sex practices over.

I get that you have a specific scenario in mind where someone is being shitty, but I kind of think holding that line up as a universal sign of shittiness stigmatizes having HPV. Like, I think the actual sentiment you're trying to convey with it is "your boundaries and sense of safety don't matter", but that's not what those words necessarily mean out of context.