b) Not, at all, being a loving partner. Pushing for forms of intimacy that your partner is uncomfortable with, past the consensual pain threshold, is not legitimate behavior.
I wouldn't automatically implore her to leave him instantly. But if they don't make progress soon, then hell yes. This is not a pattern you want to live in.
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a) Not (necessarily) gay.
b) Not, at all, being a loving partner. Pushing for forms of intimacy that your partner is uncomfortable with, past the consensual pain threshold, is not legitimate behavior.
I wouldn't automatically implore her to leave him instantly. But if they don't make progress soon, then hell yes. This is not a pattern you want to live in.